"I am NOT afraid of death, but the separation from family
and friends makes me sad. HOWEVER, that is the view from THIS SIDE! Once a
person crosses over into eternity, he (or she) is far too busy being caught up
in a reverent ecstasy to have any thoughts of those still on Earth. Those
thoughts would cause a little hint of sadness and there is none of that in
heaven. So my opinion is that the only sadness in the death of a Christian is
suffered by those left on Earth. So if my passing would cause you to be sad
because you miss me then “I am honored and humbled by that but if I have "crossed
over" then the kindest way to say it is that I am not too busy being awe-struck
over Paradise to miss anyone or anything. Sorry."
~ Marshall A. Lowery